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Relationships - matches made in Heaven?
Dreamteam
post Dec 30 2008, 06:28 PM
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In Jane Austen's time marriages were sometimes arranged to ensure the security of finances, estates, titles etc. Unless a woman was financially independent she needed to marry a man who could afford to support her and any children or face an old age of poverty. A man would sometimes marry a woman with money to help maintain his estate. This thread will discuss the relationships in Sense and Sensibility. Do you think the couples married for love or for convenience and, if it was the latter, do you think love, or at least respect, followed?

At the beginning of the book we have Mr & Mrs Dashwood just before he dies. What kind of relationship do you think they had during their married life?

We have Mr John Dashwood and his wife Fanny, Sir John and Lady Middleton. What do you think their reasons for marrying had been? Do you think they are, or have ever been, in love? What are your opinions of the marriages entered into in order to keep estates together or to provide comfort for women?

Marianne wanted to marry Willoughby for love but he needed to marry for financial reasons. If Marianne had been rich and they had married, do you think they would have been happy together?

Do you think Marianne and Brandon will be happy together? No marriage is without its problems, what do you think their challenges will be?

Now to Edward and Elinor. How well is Elinor suited to the life of a clergyman's wife? What kind of husband do you think Edward will be?

What do you think money, or the lack of it, tells us about the characters? What does it tell us about society in Jane Austen's time?

Feel free to discuss any or all of these relationships or others in the book that have not been included here. The questions raised are just a starting point for discussion, we welcome any other questions you might like to raise.


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I agree. At that time in society, it was practical for women to marry for money since they would have very, very limited ways of earning any of their own. However, another important factor is the family. Parents could and did arrange marriages for various reasons (financial security, "blood"/status, etc.)--think Darcy and his cousin Anne (although they happily didn't follow through).
I think that as time went on, partners some marriages would definitely gain respect for each other and "liking" may grow to "loving" but, I don't really see much of it in S&S. Mr. and Mrs. Dashwood may be one. I think as long as the husband is not over-demanding, unfaithful, and gambling away the family's fortune, women at the time probably would have reason to respect their husbands. Marriages definitely did not all involve the love that JA wrote about (and her characters are lucky to have them!).
I just hope that people do end up with happy lives filled with both love and fortune in the real world. (Just to give me hope for the future biggrin.gif )
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